Here are some dangerous thoughts clients have revealed to me. Deep down, I care mainly about myself. My family gives me more pain than pleasure. The liabilities of getting married outweigh the benefits. I’m terrified of the physical pain of having a baby and then the enormous sacrifice it takes to be a parent—Your life is no longer your own. And it costs a fortune. I’m tempted to cheat on my spouse. Deep down, my failures aren’t caused by all those externalities I cite. Fact is, I am not very competent nor motivated. Plus, I’m a handful. If I were my boss, I’d replace me. I’m tempted to commit a … Continue reading Marty Nemko